Sunday, August 23, 2026

Build coming along swimmingly

I'm happy to report we're making good headway with our lake retirement property. The new boat house was approved by the river authority on Friday, and will soon be sent to the HOA architectural review committee for review. After signing on the dotted line for our splash pool, the builder wasted no time getting the work started.

A mere four days after we inked the contract, our pool builder spent the past week having a crew dig the pool, add rebar and rough in the necessary plumbing. Then they will "shoot the pool" with gunite in the next few days. After it has cured for a few weeks, the pool will be put under wraps and mothballed until the house is almost finished.

With us in the midst of the typical late summer dry spell, the husband wanted to cruise his fishing boat up to the new property to check on water levels. Luckily, we were able to get there without having to break out the trolling motor. As you can see in the pics below, the "knees" of our cypress trees weren't damaged when the old dock was removed. We've asked our new boathouse builder to be careful of them when the boathouse build is anticipated to begin in the next month to six weeks.


And, finally, I'm including some of the things I've been working on lately for the house design. With a finished floorpan, we've been editing elevations. That should wrap up in the next couple days, and then we'll move to the window schedule as well as every light fixture and plug in the house. The front elevation below is where we started. The husband and I have made a series of tweaks to get exactly what we've been envisioning to create a timeless "lakeside cottage" look.

Several weeks ago I had AI giving me a bit of a hand while I awaited range color samples from ILVE. My three top standard color choices were blue gray, emerald and navy. When the samples arrived, I took them over to the stone yard to see how they looked next to the cristallo Tiffany quartzite I'm using for the kitchen, scullery and laundry room countertops/backsplash, as well as my office. 


As you can see above, where we put the *potential* wood floor and cabinetry hardware up next to the quartzite and blue gray stove color, it was a pretty good select. But then I couldn't help taking a look at all of the RAL color options the range maker provides. And of course I found a few that would be an even better choice for the quartzite. So now I'm waiting for a custom color quote from the place where we're sourcing all of our appliances. I honestly feel the custom color price might be justified to get the best possible match since I believe this range and hood combo from ILVE will be the showpiece of our kitchen. 


Thursday, August 20, 2026

August vacations... for thee, not me

The husband and I didn't get a break from the Texas heat this month since we're dealing with new house, pool and boathouse planning/permits for construction. But our girls did get away. I love that this is the third summer they've taken a sister's trip together. California, Rhode Island and Massachusetts have provided lovely changes of scenery and temps for them the past several years. 


Our lawyer and her boyfriend also got a break from this sweltering Texas summer to attend a wedding, and thoroughly enjoyed it.



Even though it's bordering on Dante's 9th circle of hell here lately, some of our sunsets have been fantastic.


As always, I don't let the heat deter me from dreaming about cooler fall days. I had the husband bring down my 22 bins of autumn decor from the attic earlier this week for me to sort. I had purged some last year. And then ended up donating another four boxes of light blue and green pumpkins I originally purchased almost ten years ago. I've picked up several new fall decorations that will go nicely with this different color direction I'm taking. 



Friday, August 14, 2026

Is it Sept yet?!

School started two days ago. The stores have had fall decor on the shelves for several weeks. And I'm already seeing halloween as well as Christmas reels in my social media feeds. Unfortunately, the Fahrenheit continues to hover at the century mark. Summer temps take a long time to back off here in the Deep South. Our calendar may be rolling over to September in the next couple weeks, but the serious heat will still be with us for a few months. 

Hoping to hurrying fall along, I recently purchased the cute little mahjong mat below. I took it to play with my mahjong ladies a couple days ago and it was a hit. If you can't beat those folks jumping on all things fall while it's still hot as Hades outside, then might as well join them.

Last weekend we participated as hosts for a Back to School brunch at the club. Guests were encouraged to bring in school supply donations to be made to our local district, and I must say everyone was quite generous. It was good to see more of our friends and neighbors here in the hood as folks slowly trickle back to the Bay from travel and second homes in cooler US climes. 



A few of my husband's first cousins recently drove up from their homes in the Houston area for a visit. My husband's dad is the last surviving sibling of that generation, younger brother to his five older sisters (the cousin's mothers). And so they wanted to get in a visit with their Uncle Sonny before his dementia progresses any further. My husband's mother had a wonderful time because she loves visiting and has known these "boys" their whole lives. She's still pretty on the ball at 89, and so they all enjoyed strolling down memory lane with her and letting her get caught up with the latest news from each branch of the family. We had barbecue catered in, but I whipped up a chocolate sheet cake with cinnamon because it's my mother-in-law's favorite. 



Friday, August 7, 2026

August plods along

If I had to pick a least favorite month on the calendar, August would be the front runner. July has the 4th, and September heralds the beginning of college football season. The first of my beloved BER months. Poor old August is squeezed in there, the tail end of summer with its hot temps and nothing really fun going for it. As recently as fifteen years ago, I enjoyed August because it meant the girls and I were headed back to school. I was always one of those weirdos that looked forward to our local Walmart setting up the aisles of school supplies. Fresh folders and new markers were my jam. Now I just want the whole back-to-school thing hustled along so fall decor will hit the shelves. Begone, August. 

Today we met with our pool builder to review the contract and sign it so we can get that show on the road. Our slab can't be poured until the pool has been dug and the shell done. After that cures, it will be covered and put into a sort of hibernation through most of the house build to keep it protected. This time next year, we *hope* we're in the downhill slide of the house build so the pool can then be uncovered and completed. 

I took the pic below standing on what will be the door leading out of our screened in back porch, lookin across those stakes marking the pool's four corners towards the water. Right now it's my rather dry red dirt hill. If you look closely in the pic over to the left, you can see where they've started stacking all of the building materials for our boat house. We hope to have the boat house finished by late fall, Lord willing and the creek don't rise (as my granny used to say).


Last weekend our younger daughter C came to spend the weekend with us. After her bar exampalooza on Tuesday and Wednesday, she was looking for some down time. She mentioned pottery painting, so we went over to our local studio where she created a darling mug for her boyfriend. The husband grilled for supper and his parents came over to eat with us while visiting with C. It was a lovely low key weekend with our mentally tired girl who was happy the get the bar exam box ticked.



Speaking of the in-laws, my husband's mother LOVES cream peas, aka southern field peas. We didn't grow up eating them, so cream peas were a revelation to me when I married into the family. They're quite tasty, but often hard to find. So any time I run across fresh ones at the market or a roadside stand, I get some for her. They can be pricey sometimes, so I was pleased to run across the ones I found below for only $6 per bag. That's a steal, y'all.


When I was a kid, roadside produce stands were pretty common throughout East Texas from the coast, west of the Louisiana state line, all the way up to Arkansas. Every summer we'd make the almost six hour drive up to my grandmother's sister Jodie Ruth's house in Texarkana, which took us up all of the pea patch highways. My granny would stop at several places on the way home, buying bushels of peas. She'd park me on the back porch with a big enamel bowl full of black eyed or purple hull peas to shell. I can remember both thumb nails getting stained from the purple hulls. She'd cook up a big pot of them with a leftover ham bone - so yummy - and freeze the rest to eat later. Those truly were some of the good old days... roadtrips to see extended family, your grandparents spending time with you, and simple tasks like pea shelling on the back porch. 

Tuesday, August 4, 2026

Readying for the Romans study

August has arrived, so you know it's time for my annual shout-out post to join our new year of Bible Study Fellowship (BSF). Next month we'll begin a word-by-word analysis of Paul's letter to believers in Rome. I'll be returning to my preferred church on Thursday mornings, opening my heart and mind to God's word so He can speak His truths into my life. 

One of the things I love most about the Bible is how God meets me where I am with His word. What I learn today at my age and stage in life is unique to my own needs and situation. God's timing is always perfect. If I'm blessed to live another twenty years and study Romans again in my late 70s, God will undoubtedly show me exactly what I need to hear at that time in my life. Profound. Relevant. Applicable. And I think that's just the coolest thing, worshipping a God who knows me so well and wants to lead me if I'll surrender and let Him.

All you have to do is Google BSF International and you'll land on the website. If you click on "Find a BSF Group", you'll be directed to class options nearest you after inputting your city or zip code. Post-COVID, there are still online groups to join if that works better with your schedule. I hope you'll give God's word, studied in fellowship through the BSF program, a chance to be the same blessing in your life that it has been in mine!



Monday, August 3, 2026

Dog days of summer

We've entered that time of year in Texas when there's no need to check the forecast for the next two months because nothing's changing. The odds are typically low that we would see a hurricane come ashore and head inland our way. We *hope* that's the case, anyway. Because otherwise it's just more of the same hot-hot-hot temps until we finally get a bit of a break when our first weak cool fronts begin arriving by late October. 

When our decorator RH came to help me with selects for the new lake house a couple weeks ago, she brought her dog Peach. A smallish golden doodle, she was mostly easy company for our two terriers. Slowing down at age 9, sweet Pepper couldn't be bothered after some initial inspection of the newcomer. Little man Finn was really interested in playing since he's 3, but Peach was just leggy enough to be a bit intimidating when she got wound up. Plus she had a tendency to bark in his face when she got really excited. I took the pic below of the doggos one evening - such a funny little canine crew.


Sunday, July 26, 2026

Four days, 10 appointments

To quote my husband, the tailpipe was dragging on my wagon by Friday evening after we wrapped up our last design appointment. I had my decorator RH drive in from San Antonio Tuesday to spend several days with me so we could meet with all of our builder's vendors to begin the process of selects to finalize the contract for our new lake house. 

We visited the folks who do custom cabinets, flooring, tile, countertops, stone and brick, appliances, hardware, faucets, toilets, tubs, sinks, garage doors, gutters, lighting, windows and doors. It was up to a sweltering 102 the afternoon we were walking the slab yard considering countertop options. I chose the beautiful cristallo tiffany quartzite above, mined in Brazil, to use in the kitchen, scullery and laundry room, as well as my office. The picture doesn't really do the green with blue undertones justice. The board you see at the bottom of the quartzite slab is the hardwood flooring that caught my eye and is currently our top choice. 

I've gotta say, thus far my most exciting select has been the range and hood (below) for our main kitchen. The pretty French blue color was definitely appliance eye candy in the showroom. But it also comes in a British green. So the appliance vendor is ordering me samples of both so I can go hold it up to the countertops to see which one will be a better fit with the four quartzite slabs I've got on hold.

I've always been a decisive person, so the selection process was long but mostly painless. The only place where we fumbled around a bit at the beginning was lighting, bouncing ideas off each other to get a clearer picture of the right direction to go with it. But even then, we persevered through some initial not-just-right choices to land on several solid fixtures that are warm, but not too "bright", if you know what I mean. As you can see below, we're leaning into warm tones with the brass door handles, as well as cabinet pulls. Think burnished and aged, rather than polished.


By and large, the vendors we visited were knowledgeable and helpful, which was a blessing. We ended up ordering more than a dozen of the 9x15" paint samples from Samplize to narrow down exterior colors. The next time I get together with our decorator RH, we'll work on interior colors. And maybe a bit of wallpaper, too. This next week will be all about working to finalize the elevations, while meeting with our pool builder to revamp the design and placement of what we're envisioning as part of the outdoor entertaining space. Slowly but surely, y'all, our plans are starting to gel into the vision we imagined for this property.