Tuesday, August 19, 2025

MRI results are in

After all that rigamarole to get an MRI of my neck, I'm happy to say they didn't really find anything new. I had already been diagnosed with compressed vertebra almost twenty years ago. Thanks to new and improved imaging over the past two decades, they were able to see my wonky neck in greater detail.

The good news is that much of this is related to being in my late 50s. The joys of aging, y'all. The bad news is that I've got some mild disc herniation/protrusion and osteophytes (bone spurs), plus narrowing in the bony canal of the vertebrae. Undoubtedly there's arthritis at play, too. Any/all of these factors could be the cause of flareups when my nerves are getting pinched, causing muscle spasms, pain, numbness, tingling, etc. 

My GP suggested a referral to see an orthopedic/spine specialist in order to establish care and come up with an approach that best addresses my needs at the present, and going forward. With spinal issues on both sides of the family - my maternal grandmother had back surgery in her 60s while my dad had neck surgery in his 40s - it's no wonder I'm dealing with this in my middle years. Instead of sticking my head in the sand now that this most recent flareup is winding down, I've set up an appointment with the orthopedic group to see their doc who handles pain management. The consensus between my GP and the spine specialist, upon reviewing my MRI results, confirmed a conservative approach is all that's warranted right now. Who knows... maybe I can wrangle a bit of PT and some therapeutic massages on the insurance's dime since I've met my deductible. Always look for the silver lining, y'all!


Sunday, August 17, 2025

New BSF study starts soon

It's August, so you know that means I'm breaking out the megaphone to get your attention about Bible Study Fellowship (BSF). This year we're picking up where the Kingdom Divided study left off two years ago, delving into Exile & Return with the Old Testament prophets. The Assyrians and Babylonians have overthrown Israel and Judah, destroying the temple then sending most of its inhabitants into exile. It was a sad time for the Jews before Jesus left heaven to enter this world in order to secure humanity's salvation. But the prophets foretold of the Messiah's coming, as we'll soon discover. God always provides for the remnant, never forsaking or forgetting His chosen people.

It's not too late to go to the BSF website ( https://www.bsfinternational.org/ ) and find the class meeting nearest you. There are usually day and evening options, with many that include the children's program. There is also an online option if that works better with your schedule. I speak from experience, that you won't regret a deep dive into God's word. He's waiting there to show you timely things that will apply to your life circumstances, meeting you right where you are to walk with you. Check out the little video I've attached below, or hit me up in the comments with any questions you have. Give BSF the chance to be a blessing in your life just like it has been in mine!


Thursday, August 14, 2025

Slings vs. cradles

When we bought our first lake house on a smaller body of water in the hill country, we were in a tranquil little canal with no thru traffic. I got accustomed to launching and docking our boat in a cradle that hugged it tight. No crazy rocking or grinding noises to scare the beejeepers outta me as the boat was raised and lowered into the water. Virtually everyone on that lake had a cradle.

Fast forward to our new lake home in northeast Texas. We have a lovely homesite that features big water views situated in a large bay facing south, where most of the wind comes from. No calm canal here, folks. When you add in the wake boats, tubing and jet ski traffic we get, we're often dealing with choppy waters. And that's a real headache when you're trying to launch or dock a new-to-you boat. I was honestly surprised to realize that most folks on this much bigger lake use slings in their boathouses. I've been incredibly leery of these insubstantial looking contraptions from the very beginning because they just don't look sufficient to lift anything bigger than a canoe. On closer inspection of the slings at our boathouse, I swear they reminded me of those old woven lawn chairs from our growing up days that frayed and fell apart after a couple summers. Y'all know what I'm talking about - see below. I'm not about to trust lifting a 3500 lb brand new boat that cost as much as my SUV in something made of polyester for $29.99 down at the Walmart that barely supports my backside. But I digress.


We bought a 22' tritoon boat for the obvious reasons other empty nesters our age do the same. And yet that's a lot of boat to wrangle in and out of its bay. Especially when we're rockin' and rollin' with a lot of wave action. Oh sure, the serious waves come and go in spurts. Obviously on the weekends we see way more traffic on the water. Mornings are probably my favorite time to launch while others are still eating breakfast, but I honestly think sunset cruises will be our guest's favorite time of day to take a ride. And that is undoubtedly when the lake waves are more prevalent.


Since we needed to get a PWC lift for the jet ski we plan to buy for our grown kids to enjoy, while also wanting a second spot to launch our kayaks safely, it was a no brainer to have one of our local boathouse pros replace both of those flimsy looking sling lifts with cradles. He also added bumpers everywhere for when it's hard to stick the landing. Plus a swim ladder, because I plan to suggest to our neighbors that we could all pitch in to buy a water trampoline for everyone to enjoy on our stretch of the peninsula next summer. 



Stay tuned for my ongoing boathouse adventures that hopefully don't result in any swear words being thrown out, or dings to my new toon. Next on my water sports to-do list is checking into one of those cool touchless boat covers I've always wanted.


Thursday, August 7, 2025

MRI think not!

I've spent recent days going back and forth with my primary care doc about imaging options to get a better look at the compressed vertebrae in my neck. Last Friday, I went in for my first MRI experience. Y'all... that imaging tube was waaaaay smaller than it appeared in pics, and totally triggered my claustrophobia. And so the sweet tech rolled me right back outta there before I totally lost it. I've never had an MRI before, despite 27 years of cervical spine issues. I call these things "flareups", which involve pinched nerves causing painful muscle spasms, numbness, tingling and general aching in the affected shoulder/arms. I kid you not - earlier this summer it dawned on me I haven't had any serious neck issues since 2008, and I was thinking to myself what a blessing it has been. 

Sure enough, 'ol scratch said hang on there, sis, let's tune up the pain in your neck to make you eat those words of thankfulness to the Almighty Lord. Because the devil doesn't want me praising God for His provision. Oh no, satan wants me on my knees in pain, shaking a fist at the Great Physician and asking Him why. The devil is a wily one, to be sure, but my One True God is greater than any of that snake's schemes to undermine my faith. 

When my primary doc plus the referred sports medicine/pain management physician ordered this imaging, I didn't dwell on the possibility that I might have issues with a standard MRI. After considering more of the traditional MRI tube scenarios that involve varying degrees of sedation, I looked at other options and found the seated MRI. And honestly, I think that sounds like a fabulous choice for a couple different reasons. First of all, the pain is more intense when I'm seated and so I think getting a good view of my spine in that position will be more helpful for my docs to see what's happening now, as well as provide a baseline for future flareups. The other positive to the seated MRI, other than me not feeling like I'm being suffocated in a cave, is that I can be distracted by watching TV. Annnnd maybe taking a Xanax before the appointment, just for good measure. Whatever it takes, y'all. I'm praying this seated option will work and my docs can get the imaging they need to provide the best approaches going forward. Because I've gotta get back to the lake to see how our boathouse updates are progressing.

Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble, and He saved them from their distress. He sent out His word and healed them; He rescued them from the grave. Let them give thanks to the Lord for His unfailing love and His wonderful deeds for mankind.

Psalms 107:19-21


Monday, August 4, 2025

Pedal power

Last month I bought a bike. Nothing fancy. Just a simple cruiser to pedal around our neighborhood and stretch my legs. I always enjoy walking the dogs, but decided it would be fun to add a bike into the exercise mix. It's been interesting riding around the hood. Most of the traffic I encounter is the golf cart sort. And squirrels crossing my path rather than automobiles.

Unfortunately, all of my exercise came to a grinding halt a few weeks ago when I slept at a "bad angle" and woke up with aggravated compressed vertebra in my neck... AKA a pinched nerve. This always causes me to suffer muscle spasms, which bring me to my knees in a world of hurt. Thanks to my concierge doc back home, I survived this flareup on muscle relaxers, pain meds and a steroid pack until I could drive myself and the dogs our almost six hour route home into the hill country for an MRI. More on that later.

I'm afraid I may be entering that era where my big life updates are becoming more about ailments. A friend and I were laughing at ourselves recently, swapping stories about my wonky neck and her ankle issues. Honestly, this neck thing of mine is old news. My compressed vertebra first came to light way back in 1998. My dad had the same issue, and needed surgery for it in his 40s. Despite several flareups over the past 27 years, I've always been able to baby my neck back to normal with rest, meds and physical therapy. The main thing is time because there is no quick fix. Exactly two weeks from the start of this recent flareup, I didn't wake up in tremendous pain and dare I say my neck is feeling almost like its regular old middle-aged self again. Praise the Lord, y'all, our Great Physician at work in my life.


Saturday, August 2, 2025

Ladies lake weekend

I invited one of mother's dear friends she knew since high school (and served as a bridesmaid in her wedding), as well as her sister and daughter-in-law to come visit me at the lake house for a relaxing weekend recently. We had a good time catching up, as always. We also enjoyed some excellent meals, and I scheduled us for a sunset cruise with local pontoon owner Captain Jack one evening. This allowed me to enjoy a glass of wine and not have to worry about getting our new-to-me boat back in its sling. Slings are the bane of my existence these days, y'all, so stay tuned for more on that in an upcoming post.


Friday, August 1, 2025

Final Alaska cruise post

This is my last cruise post, wrapping up the final two days of our Alaskan adventure. After our crab pot run and crab feast in the morning, we walked off some of the calories in Ketchikan that afternoon. It's a picturesque town, and I especially enjoyed Creek Street. A boardwalk built atop the water on pilings, it was the former red light district now housing various shops. I recall the green building named Dolly's was just one in a string of brothels along this stretch. I also snapped a pic of a totem pole on display there in the downtown area.


My eagle eyes spied a Christmas store, much to the husband's dismay, where I was pleasantly surprised to locate a set of never seen before matryoshka Santas I just had to have. I bought some generic Alaska souvenirs for the kids, as well as some flu meds for me. Thanks to the cruise crud I picked up, I was still mourning the fact that I had missed the Yukon train excursion day because I ran a fever overnight and had no energy to battle the tourist crowds. 

Our final cruising day was spent traveling through Alaska's Inside Passage into British Columbia where we disembarked the next morning in Vancouver. The scenery was a beautiful blue for much of the route (see unfiltered pics below), dotted with various structures every so often. We saw other boats, as well as some wildlife along the way, including more whales and a couple different pods of porpoises. It was a wonderful way to end this memorable trip.


Saturday, July 26, 2025

Lake house is getting soooo close

A full five months after we purchased the lake house, we're down to the last few items on a massive to-do list. And it's finally feeling like our place. We need to haul our travel pics from the hill country house to hang in a couple transition areas. Then there's the office. We've still got to trailer our desks and chairs up here. And I can't forget all of the seasonal decor bins in my garage - fall, Christmas and Easter - that need to be moved so I can decorate for my favorite holidays. Below is evidence of my work at the lake house this month. In this instance, it's a tiny little tweak.

I found the green faux fishing lure (above) at a decor store for the bargain price of $2, so I hung it atop the vintage fishing creel in our rather wasted space expansive entry hall. I also added a few things to the garage entry area, seen below. The whimsical animal prints from our Guadalupe River house are favorites of mine. I set out the river house's kid books and Timothy Turtle, too. I'm not sure why the lady who designed this house didn't have bench seating in this spot because it's a no-brainer to me. Since she didn't opt for it, I chose to display some more strolling turtles on that rather useless narrow shelf, with three practical storage bins below to round out this little grouping. See those three seriously inconvenient storage cabinets above? That's where I plan to house some of my more precious and delicate Santas that need a safe space.

The fireplace mantel received an upgrade when I added a couple black metal lanterns to frame the oryx. Then the husband brought a few mounts that we hung adjacent to the fireplace. It's a good looking trio, featuring a white tail, blesbok and warthog.

My "fishy" dining room has finally come together, and I'm pleased with the final look. I know it's kinda quirky, but that's what I like about it. My goal has been to make this home less formal and more fun. I think these two walls in the dining room complement each other swimmingly. Sorry... couldn't resist. For the tabletop, I purchased some deeply discounted blue plaid plates to carry me through the end of summer. I'll be adding orange napkins tied with blue and orange pumpkin ribbon once we ease into August, when I can't resist unpacking my fall decor any longer.



Behold below a vintage Limoges fish platter in a frame plus handpainted fish plates, oyster servers, and another cast silver fish to match the one that sits atop the "pond" mirror on the opposite wall. It's a funky little collection, to be sure, all purchased for a song on eBay. And I love it!


I was able to get Tom, our talented curtain and artwork hanger, scheduled to come help me arrange things on the walls in our three guest bedrooms. I put some of the girl's artwork in a few places, including the paddles our law student painted for me to hang in our LBJ lake house plus some pastels the CPA did in elementary school. Such sweet family keepsakes, y'all. After framing a couple wedding pics from the CPA daughter's fall ceremony, I placed those on a demilune table in the other wasted space longer guest hallway to enjoy every time I walk by.





Over the July 4th weekend, the husband sat in what I've dubbed the lounge, which is really just the eat-in kitchen area I opted not to use for eating since we have a big twelve-seater table in the dining room. Plus I've got four stools at our generous kitchen island if we want more eating space. Anyhoo, he commented that what he really needs is some place to prop his feet. So I ordered a fuzzy-wuzzy boucle covered ottoman. This thing will hold up to 400 lbs, so it can double as extra seating. And has a lid that provides inner storage. It was a total steal for a sturdy piece of multi-tasking furniture.


Monday, July 21, 2025

A crabby morning in Ketchikan

For our shore excursion in Ketchikan, the husband and I had fond memories from our first Alaskan cruise and convinced our traveling buddies we should do it again. And we were not disappointed. We kicked off the day with a drive to the George Inlet Lodge, where we embarked on a boat to pull crab traps. 

Our boat narrator was really informative and funny. Did you know we only eat male crabs because all of the females are thrown back into the water? We were given the chance to hold a crab, so I was able to snap a pic of R with hers. 


We got the added bonus of some eagle spotting. A fellow tour passenger asked about the eagles we were seeing in some of the trees lining the shore where this crab pot was located. So the narrator decided to throw out a bit of dead fish from his bait bucket to see if he could lure them closer. I bet he must do this on every tour because the eagles flew over like trained dogs for an easy snack. It was so cool.




I was toggling back and forth between video and photo, so I ended up with this rather funny shot of the eagle's feet and tail feathers mid-flight. Did you get a gander at those talons on its feet? No wonder they're so good at fishing. 

After returning to the lodge, we enjoyed an amazing all-you-can-eat crab lunch. They had an empty crab shell stacking contest amongst all of the dining tables. We gave it our best shot, as you can see in the pic below. Since cheating was encouraged, I'm afraid other folks were more imaginative than us (adding things like drinking glasses at the bottom of their crab pile) and won it. Honestly, I was so busy trying to get crab dipped into the melted butter and headed to my mouth that I couldn't be distracted by things that pulled me away from this delicious crab feast.




Thursday, July 17, 2025

July 4th recap

We had SUCH a wonderful time with our immediate family at the lake house for the July 4th holiday weekend. We kicked off Friday with a patriotic parade through our neighborhood. There were lots of military vehicles, decorated golf carts and vintage cars to view. I've decided next year we'll have to participate in the golf cart decorating contest and parade.






The husband prepped the pieces for a basic kayak holder at our home in the hill country and then hauled it to the lake. It was past time to get them out of the third garage bay and in a more convenient place to launch them for some paddling.


As far as meals, the husband cranked up the grill and smoker. His ribs and chickens were a big hit. I made potato salad, Asian coleslaw, corn, and yeast rolls to accompany the meat eats. I also whipped up some of our favorite dips, including balsamic caramelized onion dip. It takes a solid 45 minutes to cook the onions, but it's delicious and well worth the trouble. You can never go wrong with fresh guacamole, or baked buffalo chicken dip. I'm a total appetizer girl, y'all.





We launched our long awaited pontoon for the first time on the 4th. There is definitely a learning curve when you get a new boat. The electric Bimini top had an issue, but thankfully I got the service techs out the next week to get that squared away. The CPA daughter and her husband brought along their fur baby Chorkie. She wanted to take him on the boat to see how he'd do since he has FOMO. As you can see in the pic below, he was a pretty good first time sailor. The kids wanted to do a bit of tubing even though the winds made the water a bit choppy. So we obliged and dragged them around the lake for a bit.





In addition to boating on the 4th and 5th, the kids played pickleball and a round of golf. I spied them on the 12th tee box from our backyard. There are lots of nice activities here in our community for family and friends to enjoy when they visit.


We were treated to two separate fireworks displays here in our neighborhood, one on the 4th and another one the next evening. Our golf community dues paid for the fireworks on the 4th, which were nice and what you'd expect.



The fireworks display on the 5th was sponsored by a group in our neighborhood who calls themselves the porch people. Since we made a donation to them for this event, I guess we're officially porch people now. I joked that some folks must have taken out a second mortgage on their homes because the fireworks were set off two at a time, and they went on forever. Several times I thought it was the big grand finale finish, but they just kept going. It was genuinely a spectacular sight to see.